One handle.
Your way in.
Your Cofelt ID is your unique @handle. Share it where you choose. Every connection still needs your approval.
You choose what leaves your hand.
A Cofelt ID can travel in a bio, a message, or on a card. Your name is not a public lookup key.A request waits at the gate.
Entering a Cofelt ID asks for connection. It does not open the profile or grant access.The circle opens only after both people say yes.
Once accepted, both people can open With privately and message each other directly.
An invitation.
Never an open door.
You can decline, block, or remove a connection. Private matching signals stay private.
The Cofelt ID guideWhat is a Cofelt ID?
A Cofelt ID is your unique, shareable handle on Cofelt. It lets someone request a connection without making your name publicly searchable. You can share it in a bio, a message, or on a card.
How do I connect with people on Cofelt?
You can connect through a Cofelt ID, recommendations that respect your settings, mutual connections, or social context created through recommendations or replies. Every connection still requires acceptance.
Can people find me by searching my name?
There is no public name search on Cofelt. People can reach you through paths such as a Cofelt ID you share, recommendations, or mutual connections, subject to your privacy settings.
What stays private?
Personal matching signals never appear as labels, filters, or shared details. Cofelt does not sell personal data or use IDs for cross-site tracking. Service providers and essential diagnostics are explained in the Privacy Policy.
How do I get a Cofelt ID?
Your account receives a privacy-neutral handle. Share it in a bio, message, or card when you want someone to reach you.
Can I change my handle?
With a verified email and an eligible active paid entitlement, you can choose an available handle in your profile. Changes are limited to once every 30 days. Your previous handle stays reserved and redirects to the same privacy-checked profile for 90 days. If paid access ends, your current handle stays yours.
What should I check before sending a request?
Check the handle and permitted profile details, especially if a link came from outside Cofelt. A familiar name or photo is not proof of identity. Never share a password or verification code to accept a connection.