A Cofelt ID is your unique, shareable handle on Cofelt. It lets someone request a connection without making your name publicly searchable. You can share it in a bio, a message, or on a card.

How do I connect with people on Cofelt?

You can connect through a Cofelt ID, recommendations that respect your settings, mutual connections, or social context created through Echoes and replies. Every connection still requires acceptance.

Can people find me by searching my name?

There is no public name search on Cofelt. People can reach you through paths such as a Cofelt ID you share, recommendations, mutual connections, Echoes, or replies, subject to your privacy settings.

Cofelt ID / connect by choice

Share an ID, not your private profile.

Your Cofelt ID is a short, unique handle. Share it only where you choose. Someone can send a request, but no connection opens without your approval.

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Your correspondenceCofelt ID XAR-AB12Connection opens after acceptance

You choose what leaves your hand.
A Cofelt ID can travel in a bio, a message, or on a card. Your name is not a public lookup key.
A request waits at the gate.
Entering a Cofelt ID asks for connection. It does not open the profile or grant access.
The circle opens only after both people say yes.
Once accepted, both people can open With privately and message each other directly.

How people reach you

Several paths into view. One consent rule.

A Cofelt ID helps people who already know one another. Recommendations and social context can introduce someone new. No route skips your decision.

By Cofelt ID: Ask for someone's Cofelt ID or share yours in a bio, message, or card. Entering it sends a connection request. After acceptance, you can open With privately and message each other directly.
Through recommendations: Cofelt can suggest people through private relationship context and the settings you choose. A suggestion is never a score or a decision.
Through your network: Mutual connections, Echoes, and thoughtful replies can also create a human path to someone new before a request is sent.
No name search: Your name is never a public lookup key. Discovery happens only through a Cofelt ID you chose to share or a smart match that respects your settings.
Every request waits: A Cofelt ID allows someone to request connection; it does not grant one. You can reject, block, or later remove anyone.
Private signals stay private: Personal information used to improve matching is never displayed as a label, filter, or shared detail.
Your data is not the product: Cofelt does not sell personal data or use Cofelt IDs for cross-site behavioral tracking. Essential diagnostics and service providers are disclosed in the Privacy Policy.

03 / Connect

Be reachable without becoming searchable.

Set up your account, receive your handle, and decide who gets invited into your circle.

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