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What requires paying?

Member access starts with a qualifying one-time payment or monthly plan. The one-time option includes one calendar month; Cofelt and Cofelt Plus are recurring monthly memberships.

An active plan or included month provides a daily Ask allowance. After that allowance, each extra Ask answer uses 1 Spark. A retained Free Account has no daily included allowance and uses Sparks for Ask. Daily capacity limits still apply.

Connection requests, profile browsing, compatibility and direct messages do not spend Sparks. Plan limits and safety controls still apply to those features.

Check Membership for your current plan and balance, and check the cost shown in Ask before sending. Upgrading and buying a Spark Pack are separate purchases.

Purchase availability: New purchases are briefly paused. The pricing page shows the current catalog, not an available checkout. Existing balances and billing controls remain available; the app shows which actions you can use.